Before I used to think that having a girlfriend or a wife that works in the same place I work at is a NO NO … we all know as a rule … at work we don’t want anything that might disturb us … mostly women take a big part into that.
However, lately I spent time going over this rule … and I came out with the following conclusions:
1- You can always check on your girl and see that is she talking with or what she is doing anytime easily … so it’s a plus.
2- Some companies in the private sector encourage marriages between work mates … and give them benefits and incentives because of that… so it’s a plus.
3- If she is a girlfriend … its an excellent way to monitor her trying to see whether she is fit for a marriage candidate or not … so it’s a plus.
4- If both are adult... it will never hurt reputation... Because I heard many stories where the poor girl lost her reputation because of her boyfriend... maybe her didn’t mean it … well I must say it is a risk for the poor lady … but a worthwhile doing it risk …
In nutshell, it can be an advantage.. it all depends on the girl … I know many cases where both husband and wife work in the same company, ministry …etc happy stories .. I don’t see a damn sound reason why we can’t do the same!!!
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Because of the same damn exact reasons you stated!
1. You can always check on your girl and see that is she talking with or what she is doing anytime easily … so it’s a plus.
What the hell?
Min awl shay you don’t trust yourself or the person your interested in. don’t bother.
3- If she is a girlfriend … it’s an excellent way to monitor her trying to see whether she is fit for a marriage candidate or not … so it’s a plus.
It’s similar to point number 1.
3an jaad! "She" is not a piece of item you buy and you need to see if
It’s good or not .lolls!
You simply tell the person honestly.
What reputation? In this country
If you do absolutely nothing your reputation
will be rewind hence it doesn’t matter.
I’m sorry but I find you mentality very weird.
Blue Dress, LOOOL
that's all I wanted to say :P
no no no
watch grays anatomy
and u'll understand that its a big mistake ,couse only desperate people
workaholicks
with no social life will do such thing
Interesting you are!
I agree but in a romantic level loool
Imagine if u see ur wife at home and in work
u will stop missing her, wont count the min. to get bake home to be with her.
i mean its not wrong to work with ur love one wife or girlfriend.
but imagine the joy that will happen of lust and love and passion when u'v missed her at work and cant wait to go home to be with her
adry kelshay 3ndy la 3elaga bel 7ob loool
nice post...
salamz friend...
I agree with blue dress, but for the reputation part, I just have an other point of view, so it is true when you do absolutely nothing your reputation gets ruined, but what if you actually do something?? It’s reuined^2
because we have different minds
and most of mans have many ways to think or to choose the girls that they want to have relationship with her
so like every thing your idea
have advantage and disadvantage
for me i think it is depend on U and how u think about that
حبيت البوست
وحبيت الردود
بالنسبه للعلاقه بحدود الوظيفه او الكليه لها اكثر من سلبيات او ايجابيات
انا ادرس بكليه
وشفت كذا مثال عن نجاح العلاقه ومن ثم نجاح افرادها بالدراسه اكثر واكثر
وشفت امثله عن فشل العلاقه والدمار النفسي اللي يصيب افرادها وضغط الزملا والزميلات
وشفت فشل علاقه ونجاح اخرى بلا تأثير
المسئله مو بقوة العلااقه او ضعفها
هالامر يرجع للاشخاص نفسهم
خصوصا ان كان العلاقه مثلا زواج
وارتبطو عن حب
صعب ان يجابلون بعض كل يوم بالكليه
او يمرون يم بعض
او حتى تكون لهم كلاسات مشتركه
وفي ناس كنسلو الحب كله عقب الانفصال والامر حده عادي
طبعا هذا الظاهر لنا
والمخفي اهم اعلم فيه
من ايجابيات العلاقه تكون ان كلا الطرفين متفهم لصعوبات الاخر
مثل التأخير بالدوام
قروبات الدراسه مثلا
او حتى الامتحانات
المشاريع او غيره
وما اشوف لها اي سلبيه الا ان كان الشخص نفسه مو قد الزواج او الارتباط من الاول
او ان الانفصال يتم والمشاكل اللي جايز تترتب عليه
I disagree with u !
cuz both of u will have no missing time !
n work n house !!
n my opinion its very bad reasons
,, first i saw that u dont turst her while the most important thing should be is the turst !!
& and i dont think that the work is a good place to see if ur girlfriend good or not !
also u will have more problem belive me !!
well
i think it's plus and minus :D
being together all the time is boring and all know about each other so no new things to be talked when coming back home and it's a big big big problem when there is no trust
but i know many having gr8 lifes :)
nice topic
nachla
i love greys anatomy and i see them doing just fine ... both sucessful and can see each other whenever needed and possible :) thanks for ur comment
5roofa/sameday
its ironic when you say you do nothing and your reputation is damaged!! how many cases are there to represent this? virtually few... thanks for ur comment
magnoonah /sn3a
i totally agree with you sis... thanks for ur comment
Selezya
its not like they work in the same department .. i see companies from 100 employees to 7000!!! so you cant be totally right...
tx for ur post
pinkpcean
i also have seen many with happy lives ... tx 4 ur comment
I totaly agree with u
:)
i dont know
i still prefer distance and some space
to see someone every minit of everyday is a lil too much
as for "monitoring" your girl why dont u have a camera follow her and document every minit of her life, just so she wont slip up and be ummm unsuitible of whatever.
شهالغيبه :)
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